Category «Dating»

They Want You When They Can’t Have You

A young woman recently sent me this DM and and gave me permission to post and respond. “I’m a 21 year old and consider myself to be attractive looking. It seems though that when I’m single and looking, it’s tough to keep a guy’s attention. I’ll start talking to someone and right when I think …

Don’t Just Hear. Listen.

When we enter new relationships with someone we are really into, we have a tendency to get a high that scientists have often compared to the emotional equivalent of being on cocaine. That dopamine ┬áhas kicked into high gear and as we try to bond with our new romantic interest, we develop selective hearing. You …