Do you ever have those moments where you think back on a situation that happened in the past, and wished you had said or done something different? Like when you have a disagreement with someone, and you are in the shower two days later and go over it in your head. You think suddenly, "Damn it! I should have told them this!" It would have been the perfect thing you could have … [Read more...] about The Time I Should Have Stood My Ground
I read a lot of advice inquiries on forums, in private messages, and in emails from people who are dealing with boyfriends or girlfriends with trust issues, or they have trust issues themselves. One that is consistently common goes something like this: "I love my boyfriend and our relationship is good, except for the fact that I have problems with trust because my ex cheated … [Read more...] about Your Trust Issues Are Your Own Problem
When we enter new relationships with someone we are really into, we have a tendency to get a high that scientists have often compared to the emotional equivalent of being on cocaine. That dopamine has kicked into high gear and as we try to bond with our new romantic interest, we develop selective hearing. You may have noticed, people are often surprisingly honest in the … [Read more...] about Don’t Just Hear. Listen.