I decided to poll my audience.
Ladies, when was the moment you realized that he really did love you?
Turns out, there are many ways a man tells a woman “I love you.” Here are some of my favorite responses:
“When he put my feelings first.”
“It was a gradual realization but I would say the point when it became obvious to me was when my roommate was gone and I was complaining about being alone and he drove out to make me feel better, about 45 minutes round trip, he had to be at work in the morning (I was still in college at the time).”
“He was always there, and he didn’t leave.”
“He stayed through my depression when I couldn’t even recognize myself.”
“He told me that just being in my presence made him feel at home.”
“The fact he respected my boundaries, didn’t pressure me into anything, and asked me if I was comfortable before he touched me. (That was when I knew that he really cared about me.)
“The look he gives me when I touch his face or simply laughing. That is a look of someone that is in love.
Here’s when I knew Mr. DTK loved me:
When he started using the word “we” often and referred to future plans as if it was a given. Also, the first time I had to take a trip out of the state for a week, I came back and he was so incredibly excited to see me that he had the house all cleaned and dinner made, and I could just feel the energy that he he missed the shit out of me. There’s nothing like that “I’m so glad your home” energy.
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