We all know that finding an ideal guy can be tough. Whether you’re navigating the treacherous waters of online dating or simply trying to figure out if the guy you just met is worth your time, it can be hard to know what to look for. It’s easy to focus on the red flags in a potential partner and overlook the positive qualities that make them a great catch.
While it’s important to be aware of warning signs in any relationship, when it comes to finding a great guy, it’s equally important to pay attention to the green flags – those subtle but telling signs that indicate you’re with someone who is truly worth your time and affection.
Cooperativeness: A solid man is someone who is willing to work with you to make things happen. He doesn’t always have to agree with you, but he’s open to compromise and finding solutions that work for both of you.
- He’s willing to listen to your concerns and opinions.
- He’s not afraid to share his own ideas and suggestions.
- He’s respectful of your boundaries and needs.
- He’s able to communicate effectively without resorting to anger or aggression.
Emotionally available: He’s in touch with his emotions and is able to express them in a healthy way. He’s comfortable talking about his feelings, is supportive, and isn’t afraid to be vulnerable with you.
- He’s comfortable talking about his feelings and expressing himself.
- He’s able to recognize when he needs help and is willing to seek it out.
- He’s not afraid to show affection and is comfortable being intimate with you.
- He’s supportive and understanding when you’re going through a tough time.
Proficient housekeeper: Any upstanding grown man takes pride in his living space and is willing to help keep it clean and tidy. He takes responsibility for his own messes, is respectful of your home and belongings, and takes the initiative to make your shared space a comfortable place to be.
- He cleans up after himself without having to be nagged.
- He’s willing to help with household chores without being asked.
- He doesn’t keep score about who does what.
- He knows that household tasks are adult tasks, not gender roles.
Maintains respect for women: A good man treats women with respect and equality. While he may have some criticism of certain feminist efforts, he generally keeps a positive attitude about women’s needs and desires.
- He doesn’t make sexist or derogatory comments about women.
- He listens to and values women’s opinions and perspectives.
- He doesn’t try to control or manipulate women.
- He treats women with kindness and consideration.
Chooses to remain loyal: A quality man is someone who is committed to his partner and stays loyal even when things get tough. He understands the importance of trust and works hard to maintain it.
- He doesn’t cheat or flirt with other women.
- He’s honest and transparent about his feelings and actions.
- He makes an effort to keep the romance alive in the relationship.
- He’s willing to work through problems and disagreements instead of giving up.
Supports your mission: A solid man is supportive of your goals and aspirations. He understands that your dreams are important and wants to help you achieve them.
- He listens to your ideas and helps you brainstorm ways to achieve your goals.
- He’s willing to make sacrifices to help you pursue your dreams.
- He celebrates your successes and encourages you when things don’t go as planned.
- He’s proud of your accomplishments and brags about you to his friends and family.
Responsible and and accountable: He takes responsibility for his actions and holds himself accountable for his mistakes.
- He takes ownership of his actions and makes amends when necessary.
- He follows through on his commitments and does what he says he’s going to do.
- He take initiative to get done what needs to be done and doesn’t wait for others.
- He’s plans ahead to stay on top of his obligations and to make sure things get done on time.
Finding a quality man can be a challenge, but by looking out for these green flags, you can increase your chances of finding a partner who is loving, supportive, and respectful. Remember, it’s important to take your time and get to know someone before making any big commitments. Pay attention to how he treats you and others, and don’t be afraid to walk away if you see any red flags. With patience and perseverance, you can find a great man who will be an ideal partner for you.
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Until next time,
Ash Pariseau
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