This Is What The Hell Happened To Going Out On Dates

“Situationships are easier to come by, while relationships are way harder. What the hell has happened?” A while back, contributor Caylie Jane raised the question on Thought Catalog, “What The Hell Happened To Going Out On Dates?” She states, “I’m racking my brain as to why the hell the world of dating has suddenly turned …

Your Trust Issues Are Your Own Problem

I read a lot of advice inquiries on forums, in private messages, and in emails from people who are dealing with boyfriends or girlfriends with trust issues, or they have trust issues themselves. One that is consistently common goes something like this: “I love my boyfriend and our relationship is good, except for the fact …

How To Know When A Woman Is Actually Independent

Katharine Hepburn

[I originally posted this for Thought Catalog, thought it would be a good fit.] There have been quite a few articles published on Thought Catalog lately about the topic of independent women. These posts mostly talk about things like why men should date an independent woman, why women should refuse to apologize for becoming independent, etc. …

They Want You When They Can’t Have You

A young woman recently sent me this DM and and gave me permission to post and respond. “I’m a 21 year old and consider myself to be attractive looking. It seems though that when I’m single and looking, it’s tough to keep a guy’s attention. I’ll start talking to someone and right when I think …