March 20, 2023
Inner Work

What It Really Means To “Have It All”

  These days, I see a lot of people who love telling women that they can’t “have it all.” Wherever there is a woman who has both a family and a career, there’s a crowd of people who would jump at the opportunity to question how she might be failing

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Cynthia Heimel

Honoring Cynthia Heimel

Today for International Women’s Day, I would like to take this opportunity to honor one woman in particular, American humorist and feminist writer Cynthia Heimel. An email I received from reader and commenter Scharnhorst informed me that Cynthia has recently passed away, on February 25th, at the age of 70.

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Understanding Men

Things A Good Man Won’t Do

In essence, a high quality man is one that other men want to be like and women want to be with. There are many things that men of quality will do that is part of what makes them admirable. Similarly, there are also many things they won’t be doing. He

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Excellent Dating Advice All Women Should Follow

  A few weeks ago, I did a post called Terrible Dating Advice All Women Should Ignore. I thought it would be appropriate to counterbalance it with a list of excellent pieces of dating advice that all women absolutely should follow. Never settle for less. First, know your value and what

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BS Alert

Terrible Dating Advice All Women Should Ignore

  Women are often given dating advice whether they ask for it or not. Some of it is good, and some not so good. Although it may be well intentioned, some pieces of popular dating advice are just better left forgotten. “Go for a guy with money and status.” “Marry

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The Dame

Ash Pariseau. Writer, thinker. Certified relationship consultant. I help women cut through the bs and become valued in relationships with quality men.