May 28, 2024

6 Signs You Weren’t His First Choice

Note: I originally published this piece on Thought Catalog on February 7th, 2018. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to republish it here, but since it has done well with currently 20.7k page views, I figured it might be worth sharing. Ever since you were old enough to date, you’ve

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Relationship Management

When He’s The One Nagging You

In my last post, Why You Should Never Nag Your Man, commenter Miranda addresses a concern about what to do if he’s the one nagging you. She says that though her boyfriend is great, he sometimes come off as pushy. We often hear about the nagging wife syndrome, but I’m

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Relationship Management

Why You Should Never Nag Your Man

I don’t believe in nagging. At least when it comes to romantic relationships. I don’t do it, and I won’t do it. Whenever I see a family member or friend pestering their husband or boyfriend, I cringe. Sometimes I even see it in public among strangers, and I want to

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Inner Work

What It Really Means To “Have It All”

  These days, I see a lot of people who love telling women that they can’t “have it all.” Wherever there is a woman who has both a family and a career, there’s a crowd of people who would jump at the opportunity to question how she might be failing

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Cynthia Heimel

Honoring Cynthia Heimel

Today for International Women’s Day, I would like to take this opportunity to honor one woman in particular, American humorist and feminist writer Cynthia Heimel. An email I received from reader and commenter Scharnhorst informed me that Cynthia has recently passed away, on February 25th, at the age of 70.

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Understanding Men

Things A Good Man Won’t Do

In essence, a high quality man is one that other men want to be like and women want to be with. There are many things that men of quality will do that is part of what makes them admirable. Similarly, there are also many things they won’t be doing. He

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The Dame

Ash Pariseau. Writer, thinker. Certified relationship consultant. I help women cut through the bs and become valued in relationships with quality men.