The Unstoppable Samantha Jones: 6 Reasons Why She’s The Ultimate Empowerment Icon

And just like that, Samantha Jones reclaims the spotlight.

Sex and the City wasn’t just a series, it was a millennium phenomenon that had us all glued to our screens, sipping cosmos, and debating whether we were a Carrie, a Miranda, a Charlotte, or a Samantha. It was a cultural revolution that redefined how women were portrayed on television, tackling everything from love and friendship to career and, of course, sex.

Who is Samantha Jones? 

Portrayed by the incomparable Kim Cattrall, Samantha is the embodiment of sexual liberation, fearless ambition, and unapologetic individuality. She’s the friend who tells you to go after that job, that man, or that life you’ve been dreaming of, all while rocking a killer outfit. She’s the woman who owns her sexuality without a shred of shame, making her a trailblazer in a society that often prefers its women to be demure and reserved.

Not only that, Samantha Jones is back in the spotlight in 2023, courtesy of her brief reprise in the new reboot series “And Just Like That.” So, why are we still obsessed with this character? Simple. Samantha became an emblem of empowerment and freedom for a generation of viewers who saw in her the possibilities of what life could be when you live it on your own terms.

In a world that often puts women in boxes, Samantha Jones showed us that it’s okay to be sexual, ambitious, and confident—all at the same time. And for that, she remains carved in our cultural memory as a symbol of what it means to be a truly liberated woman.


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Samantha Jones Rewrote the Rules of Female Sexuality on TV

Before Samantha Jones strutted into our lives, the portrayal of female sexuality on TV was pretty vanilla. Women were often depicted as the “good girl” waiting for Prince Charming or, at best, the “bad girl” who was usually punished for her sexual freedom. Samantha’s character flipped the script and then some.

Before her, female characters who enjoyed sex were often stigmatized or relegated to one-dimensional roles. They were either the “temptress” leading men astray or the “tragic figure” doomed for a life of misery. Rarely were they the heroines of their own stories. It was as if TV execs thought a woman couldn’t be both sexual and complex. Yawn.

Who could forget the time Samantha decided to date a woman, Maria, just because she could? Or when she openly discussed enjoying “toe-curling” sex at an age when society often sidelines women as “past their prime”? And let’s not even get started on her no-holds-barred approach to one-night stands, open relationships, and, yes, even threesomes.

Despite the overwhelmingly positive impact Samantha Jones has had on redefining female sexuality and empowerment, her character hasn’t been without criticism. Some argue that her casual approach to sex perpetuates the stereotype of being ‘slutty,’ reducing her to a one-dimensional figure rather than a role model. Critics say that her sexual escapades, while liberating for some, could send a message that equates sexual freedom with promiscuity, overshadowing the character’s emotional depth and professional success. However, it’s worth noting that these criticisms often stem from societal norms that Samantha herself would likely challenge, contributing to the ongoing conversation about her character’s legacy.

I will not be judged by you or society. I will wear whatever I want and blow whomever I want as long as I can breathe and kneel. – Samantha Jones

Samantha’s sexual escapades weren’t just for shock value; they were revolutionary acts that gave permission for women to explore their own desires without shame. She made it okay to talk about sex, to enjoy sex, and to be open about what you want—and that, my friends, is why she’s a sexual revolutionary.

She Shattered the Glass Ceiling and Made Us All Want to Update Our LinkedIn Profiles

Let’s talk about her decision to work with Richard Wright. The guy had a reputation that would make most people run for the hills. But Samantha saw an opportunity. She knew her value and wasn’t about to let societal judgments dictate her client list. By taking on Richard, she sent a message loud and clear: I define my success, not society.

Samantha’s career wasn’t just a series of savvy business moves; it was a manifesto for every woman with ambition. She showed us that it’s not just okay to aim high—it’s a must. Whether it was negotiating killer deals or setting boundaries with difficult clients, Samantha was the epitome of professional empowerment.

A guy gets angry in a meeting, he’s a pistol. A woman, she’s emotional. – Samantha Jones

Owning her own PR firm from the get-go was a statement in itself. Samantha was the boss, and she made sure everyone knew it. Her iconic lines, like “I will not be judged by you or society,” weren’t just for show; they were her business mantra. She was unapologetically herself, in and out of the boardroom, and that’s a lesson in self-empowerment we could all use.

She Is The Queen of One-Liners

Samantha had some of the most memorable lines in the entire series. We can all recall when she declared, “I’m a try-sexual. I’ll try anything once.” And her ever-so-practical advice, “When I RSVP to a party, I make it my business to come.” Samantha’s quips weren’t just funny; they were often laced with wisdom, sass, and a dash of audacity that made them unforgettable.

Now, as much as we love the character of Samantha, we’ve got to give credit where credit is due. Kim Cattrall’s portrayal was nothing short of iconic. She brought a level of authenticity and flair to Samantha that made the character larger than life. Cattrall’s impeccable timing and delivery turned Samantha’s lines into cultural catchphrases. Simply put, no one else could’ve been Samantha Jones.

I’m a tri-sexual. I’ll try anything once. – Samantha Jones

Samantha’s charisma wasn’t just about her lines; it was about her entire persona. She was the life of the party, the center of attention, and yet, she never seemed to be trying too hard. That’s the magic of Samantha Jones. Her humor and charisma were so magnetic that they not only stole scenes but also made her a character that transcended the show itself.

More Than Just a Party Girl, Samantha Jones Has Emotional Depth

Sure, she loves a good party, but she also knows how to love deeply, and she’s not afraid to show her vulnerable side.

It’s easy to write Samantha off as just the “fun one” who has a lot of casual sex,  but doing so would be a disservice to her character’s depth. She’s not just about cosmos and one-night stands; she’s a woman with emotional complexities that make her relatable and, dare I say, human. Samantha Jones is not a caricature; she’s a fully realized woman with desires, fears, and vulnerabilities.

In Sex and the City, there were two men who managed to capture her heart:  Richard Wright and Smith Jarrod. With Richard, we saw Samantha grapple with trust issues and the complexities of love versus lust. It’s hard to ignore the emotional rollercoaster that was her relationship with Smith. He was the one who stood by her during her battle with breast cancer, showing us a softer, more vulnerable side of Samantha.

Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you’re pretty sexy and you’re taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with. – Samantha Jones

Both relationships peeled back layers of Samantha’s character that we didn’t even know existed. With Richard, she had to confront her own insecurities and fears about commitment. With Smith, she navigated the emotional terrain of love in the face of life-altering challenges. These relationships weren’t just plot points; they were emotional journeys that added depth to her character.

Samantha Jones Defines Friendship Goals

Samantha Jones may be many things, but let’s not forget that she’s also the glue that often holds the fabulous foursome together. She’s more than just a friend; she’s the sister you never knew you needed.

Samantha’s friendships with Carrie, Miranda, and Charlotte are the very definition of sisterhood. She’s the one who’ll tell you the brutal truth when you need to hear it, but she’s also the one who’ll hold your hair back after one too many cosmos. Whether it’s supporting Carrie through her Big drama or helping Miranda adjust to motherhood, Samantha’s always there, no questions asked.

Remember when Samantha helped Carrie remove her diaphragm (even though she just got her nails done?) Or how about when she stood by Miranda at her mother’s funeral, even when it was uncomfortable? These moments aren’t just touching; they’re defining. They show that Samantha is a steadfast friend who’ll stand by you, come hell or high water.

We made a deal ages ago: Men, babies, it doesn’t matter. We’re soulmates. – Samantha Jones

Samantha’s role in the quartet is irreplaceable. She brings a unique blend of sass, wisdom, and emotional depth that balances out the group. She’s the spice in a recipe that would otherwise be a little too bland. Without Samantha, the group wouldn’t just lose its edge; it would lose a part of its soul.

She Is The Confidence Connoisseur Who Stands for Self-Belief

Samantha Jones doesn’t just walk into a room; she owns it. And it’s not just about her swagger or her style; it’s about her philosophy on life.

She’s not just confident in her looks or her sexual prowess; she’s confident in her choices, her career, and her friendships. Samantha’s iconic line, “I love you, but I love me more”  wasn’t just about self-love; it was a declaration of her autonomy. Samantha was never afraid to prioritize her own pleasure, and she didn’t need a man—or anyone else—to validate her choices. That’s Samantha in a nutshell—unapologetically herself, no matter the situation.

Whether it’s negotiating real estate in the nude or standing up to a snooty waiter at a posh restaurant, Samantha’s confidence is unshakable. She knows her worth, and she’s not afraid to assert it. Even when she was diagnosed with breast cancer, her self-belief never wavered. She faced it head-on, with the same confidence she applies to every area of her life.

If I worry about what every bitch in New York is saying about me, I’ll never leave the house. – Samantha Jones

Samantha’s confidence doesn’t just affect her; it has a ripple effect on everyone around her. Her self-assuredness empowers her friends to be bolder, to take risks, and to stand up for themselves. She’s the friend who’ll tell you to wear that daring outfit, go after that job, or dump that loser. Her confidence is contagious, and it elevates everyone in her orbit.

Bottom Line: The Lasting Legacy of an Unforgettable Icon

Over the years, Samantha evolved from a character on a TV show to a symbol of empowerment and freedom. She taught us that it’s okay to prioritize ourselves, to be ambitious, and to live life on our own terms. In a world that often tries to put women in boxes, Samantha kicked those boxes to the curb.

Samantha Jones has left an indelible mark on viewers and society. She’s inspired conversations, debates, and even a few Halloween costumes. Her influence endures because she’s not just entertaining; she’s empowering.

I’m a lovely person. Get to know me, then hate me. – Samantha Jones

Samantha Jones is more than just a character; she’s a legacy and cultural phenomenon. She’s the friend we wish we had, the woman some of us aspire to be, and most importantly, an icon that will be talked about for years to come. And that, my friends, is the power of Samantha Jones. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk. Stay fabulous!

Until next time,

Ash Pariseau


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